1. Jaden Turns 3

    • Posted 5 months ago|
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    It's been so great getting back to my team and getting on with what it is I really do, which is playing soccer and winning a championship. I just love taking the field with the Gold Pride. I'm so happy to see so many fans coming out to support our team and the WPS.

    Today is actually a very special day for my family. My son, Jaden, is turning 3! Wow time flies! We'll definitely be doing something fun to celebrate and have cake, because he LOVES cake. At the end of the day, he just wants cake. If there's cake and water - somehow cake and water will make everything perfect for him.

    I love that Jaden's old enough to come out and watch me play a little bit. He came to our first game. Unfortunately his nap time is right at our game time so, he was not very happy. He was a little bit out of sorts during the first half. Jerry said he then fell asleep in his arms during the second half while I was in the game. So he hasn't really seen me play yet.

    Now that we are done shooting Superstars I've been working a lot on raising the awareness of Brandi's World. We really want to get young girls to feel better about themselves, find ways to connect with one another, make positive decisions in their life, and impact their communities. I'm always busy, but it seems like there's always more to do. I'd be very happy to start a non-profit like BAFI one day.

    All this online stuff is a whole new world to me. You know, maybe I'll write a book about starting your life at 40. Because with the technology and the new league, it's like anything is possible. I'm even twittering now!

    On to the birthday festivities.
  2. Learning and Growing with My Team

    • Posted 5 months ago|
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    I''ve been away from the Gold Pride for a bit now. Filming the show has been a blast, and the time away from the team and has really made me reflect on the game and my performance so far this season.

    I've been very happy with how things are starting out. I know there is a lot of room to grow. I'm 40-years-old and I still think I can be a better player. I think our team's coaching is going to help me be a better player. I think it's going to expose some of the talent that maybe I didn't get to use through either my position or the style of soccer that I was playing.

    So I'm really excited about that. It's a wonderful new chapter in my soccer story.
    It always takes adjusting joining a new team and I've had to shift gears with the amount of playing time. I think that's been a really positive aspect of being with Albertine and the Gold Pride because I love to be a starting player, but I'm not one at this point.

    Right now I'm ok with where I am. I feel I'm fitting in really well. It's really important that athletes have a positive feeling about how they fit in with their team, what their role is, and how to best get their talent out. I wasn't really sure about how that would go, but I'm feeling really good about that. I'm happy to say that I'm in a good place.

    The other big adjustment has been with my new position, playing center mid-field. I was a forward initially in college and with the national team. And then, I played in the back when I came back to the national team. You know, just by playing over the years, I feel comfortable on the field anywhere. I've not really played in this position and I think there is a lot to learn about where to be and how to be in position and when to get into it, but it's still soccer. At the end of the day, you know, it's still soccer.

    A lot of people say, "What are you doing playing there (center mid-field) at 40-years-old?" Like Fowdy asked me, "So are you playing left back now?" I said, "No. I'm playing center mid field." She goes, "Does your coach know how old you are? Do they know you're 40?" I just thought that was really funny.

    Congrats to my teammates for a win over the Chicago Red Stars on Saturday. Go Pride!

    I'll check back in soon. Jaden's 3rd Birthday is coming up so I'll be sure to share!
  3. It's Better in the Bahamas

    • Posted 6 months ago|
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    Hi all, So I'm down here in the Bahamas on a top secret mission. Well I guess it's not that top secret - we're filming a new sports competition show for ABC and I'm doing pretty well. It's a lot of fun. I'm not supposed to give any details. All the competitors are really, really super nice. We're actually all having a really good time.

    As a soccer player competing against football stars and Olympians, there are some aspects of every competition that are familiar to all of us because they fall in some type of athletic area. But I can't really give it away. Even though I'm back in more of "soccer shape," in a way I feel more prepared but in a way, no I don't feel like you can prepare for a competition like this. We have to do some quirky things and you never know what's going to happen.

    So this could last for a few weeks - depending on if we make it into the finals. But I'm missing my FC Gold Pride team right now and look forward to getting back with them. And I'll tell you, I'm enjoying as much as any body could possibly enjoy being back out on the field. And maybe that's just because I've been around once with the other league. Now having it again has been awesome. I really, really enjoy all my teammates and our coaching staff. I think we're going to eventually get to where we want and play the kind of soccer that's going to excite everybody. You know, from the players to the fans. It's definitely a process.

    Bringing 22 new people together and trying to get a system and a philosophy and style down doesn't happen overnight. I think we're making our way towards our goal of being a team that's really exciting to watch - being efficient and good and getting results.

    Well, break time is over. Gotta get back out there and give it a go. Check in again soon,
    -Brandi

  4. The Real Reason I'm Playing

    • Posted 6 months ago|
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    Two games in and things are goinggreat! The update is that we've got a win and a tie in our first two games for the FC Gold Pride and we're getting better as a team with every practice and every game. Personally I feel great, the legs are still getting there but you have to remember it's been over 5 years since I last played professional soccer!

    I think what I'm most excited about this time around is that Jaden gets to see me play. It was one of those things I was really most looking forward to because he's old enough now that he'll remember this and he understands what's happening. Probably a year ago, when he was a year and a half, coming on two, and he would see me practicing or working out with a club team, he didn't want me to play. He wanted me to hold him. Like, "Why you leaving me over here?"

    Now I think he understands. Because now when he sees soccer he says, "You play soccer, Mommy." I'm like, "Yes I do." So he's kind of getting it more now, which I love. I think sitting with his dad and being and hanging out with the friends and neighbors, he'll be able to watch and understand it, which is fun for me.

    I think that was always part of the equation for me. Getting a chance to have Jaden come to the stadium and watch me play is really exciting for me. It's very cool. Back home now as we get ready for the league-leading LA Sol.

    Oh I've also got a new website I'm apart of called Brandi's World - definitely check it out as I'll be doing some cool things on there as well. Thanks again for everyone's support. Hope you can all get to a game this year or watch us play on television!

  5. What A Way to Start It Off

    • Posted 7 months ago|
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    Opening Day at Buck Shaw Stadium and I could not be prouder of my team, the effort we showed and the support from the fans on hand to help is get it started right.

    I'd be lying if I said I wasn't anxious to get going, not really nervous, but certainly felt the butterflies. I gave a talk to the team before the game, as the oldest player, I told them about the importance of this game and how we're going to make a huge impact on the community both locally and across the country.

    And yeah, we showed it by coming back to win it. Tiff's goal was great and we celebrated like it was 10 years ago. I'm grateful that our first game was against Kristine Lilly's Boston team - Lil has been so important to our sport forever and after the birth of her little girl, this was both our comeback games.

    I didn't get the start, but that was expected. But I was asked afterwards if I heard the crowd cheering as I came into the game and to be honest, I didn't hear anything except the beating of my heart, the excitement was overflowing. I was like a rookie out there, just so excited.

    The game itself was really competitive and just shows how bright the future of our sport is. But coming back after giving up a late goal, I could see it in our eyes. Every player to a woman, we all had that attitude kind of saying we have to get it together and we did.

    Great game, great win, great fun... and hopefully a great season ahead.

  6. Goals for the season

    • Posted 7 months ago|
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    And so it begins. Getting ready for Sunday's big opening game against Boston. I am so excited that it's finally here. 3pm local time here, playing in a stadium I know quite well.

    Both as a team and individually, this is the time to be setting goals for the season and figuring out how to reach them. Setting goals is one of the things that I kind of preach. I share that with players and people, whether it's at a corporate speaking engagement or going out to do a clinic for under 9-year-olds. Having both medium and long-term goals are important.

    For me, my long-term goal is to be healthy at the end of the season. So, then I can come back and continue. My short-term goal is to keep getting a little bit stronger, which I've really been working hard at. I've been working with a trainer on a regular basis even though I've never done one-on-one work ever before. I'm doing that because I want to be stronger have more balance and be aware of how to do those things.

    I think before when I was younger, it was more about just going out there and playing, thinking that these things would take care of themselves. But now I think it's been really nice to focus on how to get into the best shape possible. So these are my two goals.

    I think my final goal is to work my way into playing on a regular basis and being in the starting lineup. That goal will change and be flexible as the season progresses. I've started in some of the exhibition games so I think it's a realistic idea. Goals have to be realistic. I can't be like, "Ok I'm going to be starting the first game." Even though in my mind I'd like to, I need to be able to assess the situation before I make that goal.

    All I know is that I cannot wait to get out there on Sunday, meet our fans and put on a great show. It's been a long time coming since we've had an opportunity like this and we're going to make the most of it. Thanks to everyone for all of your good wishes and be sure to support the WPS at games around the country and watching on television. Go PRIDE!

  7. The Generation Gap

    • Posted 7 months ago|
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    Hey, wanted to check in and give you an update as we've made some great progress as a team together. A couple of good learning experiences in the exhibition games. I'm having a blast with the women on this team and I think they're having fun with me around as well. We've definitely got a couple of generations represented, which is pretty cool.

    You know, these younger players had more soccer experience from a coaching perspective than I had growing up. My dad, god bless him, he was my coach growing up and he didn't know anything about soccer.

    Whereas they've always had a national team and role models to look up to, they've had more of a soccer environment their whole soccer careers. So that is definitely to their advantage. They've probably played more important or more high-level games as a younger player than I had. You have to remember that when I was growing up, there was no youth national soccer teams. There were no international opportunities.

    But I think what I'm lucky to have now is some perspective. No matter what people say, that really makes a difference. They say well, "Oh you're older." Well, I see things better. "Well, you're slower." Maybe, but I make better decisions.

    Believe it or not, I feel like I know the game better now than I ever have. And that helps me to make good decisions. So it's a balance. Let's be honest, I was never the fastest player and I was never the slowest player, so I feel like I'm in that same category now anyways.

    But yes, I'm having a blast. And while it may be a bit strange that some of my teammate grew up watching me or looking at me as a role model (As a few have told me), this is my perspective... when I get onto the soccer field, whether it's at practice or at a clinic or game, I feel like I'm 16 again or 24 years old playing for the national team again. I've always had this great sense of youth and excitement and nervousness in a good way when I get onto the soccer field. So right now, at this stage in my life, I know that I'm in the right place because I have that feeling again.

  8. Sore But Ready For More

    • Posted 8 months ago|
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    One week of two-a-day practices in the books! And now up early with another week of tough practices coming up. I'm sore and excited and ready to get back out there with the team. Overall, I'm hanging in there, everyone has been great on our team as far as supporting and being encouraging. And I have to say I'm holding my own, so I'm very happy.

    My family and friends have also been very supportive throughout. Not like anyone needs to go out of their way giving me any advice or anything like that as I think people are cautious about doing that. But I have received nothing but encouragement. Just like, "It is so great that you're doing this!"

    Overall, I think they really appreciate that I'm doing this. And they have just been so encouraging. You know the pat on the back or the high five, this is so great. So maybe that's been the advice, just go out there and do it.

    For my family, this is definitely going to be an adjustment. My husband and I were just talking about this, actually. They'll be some changes, of course. But Jaden will still go to school on the days he's supposed to go. We'll balance. Some days my husband will pick him up and on other days I'll be home as quickly as I can to take him to Spanish class. We're going to make it work, just like other families do.

    As the season gets closer, I think one thing I'm really looking forward to is playing against old friends. Our first game is against Boston, and that's Kristine Lilly's team. She's basically one of my best friends. I don't think I've ever really sat with her and said, "Hey how do you like playing against me?" But for me, I've always loved playing against Lil. She's such a hard worker and it doesn't matter that she's played more international games than anyone else in the world. She's still working hard and give it her all. It's inspiring to play against and with somebody like that, so it's gonna be fun.

    One thing I've gotten a lot of questions about... the new uniforms. Ha! I saw some of the photos before we got to practice because there was a mini fashion show in NYC with Puma for the launch. I saw the skirts they were wearing and was like WHAT? I sent a text message immediately to my teammate Leslie who was there like, "We're wearing skirts in our game?!" And she wrote back laughing, "No, there just for hanging around... just for the runway." I'm like, "Oh my gosh. Ok good, we're wearing SOCCER uniforms."

    So they're good. They're classy uniforms. I think they all have their small distinct differences. The skort is just for I think casual wear. For me, soccer is meant to be played in shorts.

    That's pretty much it. Having lots of fun, working hard and ready for more. Week 2, here I come.

  9. First Practice

    • Posted 8 months ago|
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    So here we are, Friday morning the second to last day of February, ready to enjoy my last weekend before going back to work. That's right, the practices with the Gold Pride begins on Monday. The start of our season is right around the corner. Then it's two-a-day and all the other things you normally do to get ready for the start of the season.

    Crazy. So what will happen (aside from the running) is that the coaches will begin to shape the team's style of play. A lot of "This is what I'd like you to do" from the coaches perspective, establishing the philosophy about how we're going to play, what kind of system we're going to play.

    What will also be interesting from Day One is that, for all teams, many of the National Team players won't be there to start. Those players will be gone for a few weeks because there's a national tournament going on in Portugal. So that will also be an interesting wrench that's thrown into the works.

    I would assume that all the teams would be building around those players, but with them gone, it will be interesting to see how the other players are handled... some fighting for rosters spots will get more attention, as will those fighting to be starters. Or maybe there's a little less pressure for some people you know. Like, "Ok that player's not here so I can kind of just settle in and be myself."

    As for me, I think the question that I get asked most is whether or not I'm ready to compete? They're like, "Ah, you're headed off for the season. Are you ready to go?" I keep coming back with, "What is ready?" I've been away from soccer for about 4 1/2 years. I feel good. So that's my answer. I feel good.

    Now I know I'm probably not the fittest I've ever been and maybe not the fastest, but I don't think that's something that's totally necessary right now. We've got a lot of games and you don't want this to be the peak right now. Then two months into the season, you're burning out.

    So I'm excited and kind of refreshed. Maybe this layoff for me has been like a good recharging of my batteries. But I don't know what I'm going to feel like after one day or two weeks or one month or the two-a-days leading up to the first game that first week of April. All I know if right now I feel really good, ready to go, and excited to get out for that first practice.

    I'll keep you updated and thanks for all the good wishes and encouragement.
  10. Always Up for a Challenge

    • Posted 9 months ago|
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    It's true, I really am always up for a challenge as you well know... the marathon was a great test, but this week, I'm taking part in another event that will test me in ways that is already starting to make me nervous.

    You may think of me as a soccer player, but golf is really becoming a real passion of mine, which is why the invitation to play in the Pebble Beach Pro Am here in my area is one I couldn't pass up.

    This is the first time I've played with men, which is a big deal. I have played in one Pro Am where I was matched up with Karrie Webb when she was number one in the world and I was the first one to tee off, so I do know what it's like to play with people watching... but teeing off at Pebble Beach is the scariest thing you can imagine. I'm telling you... a penalty kick in front of 90,000 people for the World Cup Championships was nothing compared to that moment. Kinda like going out to throw a first pitch in Yankee stadium. You're out of your element and what I found that works best is 1.) take your brain out of it because it always gets in the way and 2.) just enjoy it.

    So for me, my mentality when playing a sport that's not my own is to be athletic. Do what you've done before. Of course, that goes out the window in golf because it is so tricky and has so many technical parts. If you don't have it all going in the right direction at the right time then you're gonna be all over the place.

    For me being apart of the tournament is the exciting part. You know I grew up not far from Pebble Beach and my grandfather would take me there when I was 8 or 10-years-old. Every year we would sit on the 18th fairway and eat strawberry shortcake. My grandfather loved golf. I think he really wanted me to be a golfer but my mom wanted me to be a tennis player. So I kinda grew up with golf in that way. Not really playing it but watching it going to the range every now and again.

    But here I am. A lot of fun celebs and even my fellow Weplayer Peyton Manning is here. I've been trying to get into this tourney for the longest time and it just kinda happened randomly. I'm excited. It's just that first tee off which is lined with people. I think that's the most nerve-racking part because you sure don't want to kill one off the tee.

    And of course, being the only female, whether the pressure is there or not, you just have to think, "Ok you have to be better for more than just yourself." As for my next challenge... I would say scuba diving. But I'm not for sure I'm gonna go for it. I've done snorkeling and I like it, but I'm not sure yet. Of course, training camp for the WPS starts soon enough and that's where my focus really is.... Until then, FOOOOOORRRRRREEEEE!